Imagine for a moment the following scenario ...
You arrive at a visit at your child's biological family home.
Now imagine that without your prior knowledge they have a puppy there that they intend to give your child as a gift. Imagine that they do this in front of you.
Imagine You say that you CANNOT and WILL NOT keep the puppy. But you will find it another home.
Now imagine that fifteen minutes later the police arrive at the door of the home demanding said puppy as it was stolen. And valuable.
And imagine that you tell the police where the puppy is because noone else is volunteering the information.
Then imagine the visit going on for another hour like nothing ever happened.
I have a good imagination.